Order Up!

A couple of weeks ago, I went on a date with a gentleman. During the week, we chatted back and forth around what we should do on our date. I suggested dinner at a restaurant in my town that came highly recommended. We agreed on dinner there for our date.

When the night of the date came, he asked me why I chose this restaurant and I gave him a number of reasons why. As I spoke, I realized how much thought I had put into the choice of that restaurant for the date. I knew the location, the history of the restaurant, knew that the owner and chef often came around to the tables to chat with the patrons adding a very special touch to an evening, and the origin of the inspiration for the menu, etc. I guess, when going out to dinner, I do my research and am specific about the experience I want to have, especially with good company in tow.

When it came time to order, again, I was very thoughtful in my choice of my meal. I asked questions, requested tweaks and substitutions to the options and got recommendations on the best wine to pair with my meal. The meal was superb and there was no issue with accommodating my choices. In fact, by being specific, I believe my dinner and my evening was everything I had hoped it would be and more.

The next day, I reflected on my specificity around my choices and my dinner order and saw the parallels to so many other aspects in life, especially in finding that ideal companion. The fact is, in life, as in ordering a meal at a restaurant, we have to be very specific about what we want and the experiences we want to have.

When people come to me to help them find that ideal mate, nine times out of ten, the first reason they have not found what they are looking for, is that they have not been placing a specific enough order for that person to come into their life. Just saying “I want a nice guy or a good guy or a kind guy,” is not enough.

There are so many aspects of personality and habits that can be seen in a face, but you have to know what you are looking for and ask for it to be able to recognize it.

So if you are looking for love and don’t have a detailed list of the qualities you want in a partner, then that could be the reason you are alone.

Once you commit to crafting a list that is thoughtful, long and specific, then I would love to chat about how to see the qualities you are looking for in your dream companion’s face using Facial Intelligence. If you are ready, connect with me here and let’s get started.

Yours in specificity,


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